I’m going there. Cause it needs to be said.  This is a HUGE deal.  Sex is one of the most important ingredients of a marriage. And not just for the man.  Even on the nights ‘I’d rather not’, there’s a sense of human connection that lives on for days after the fact. Then why is it SO HARD to have this one area in sync at all times in your marriage? Well.  I don’t know the answer to that.  But I do have a lot of facts I mean opinions on this matter. For starters.  Every woman reading this has that ONE friend.  Because honestly.  I only have ONE girlfriend who is always hot-in-the-pants, ready, and willing...at all times.  Because yes.  Women talk about this stuff.  A lot. Even the ‘good girls’ talk about it.  Trust me.  I have awesome girlfriends and we all talk about SEX!  I’m usually the one that starts it...but still. So. ...

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I don’t even know where to start. Except for October of 2012.  Almost 4 years ago. I received a phone call that made my back catch the wall as it took me to my knees on the way down. My Father had passed away. Those tears were the most confusing set of tears I had ever poured out.  I wanted to remember the good times.  Because when he was sober, he was so undeniably hilarious, giving, life-loving, and wonderful.  Just so wonderful. But I got a total of maybe 30 of those days in my entire lifetime.  I was 34-years-old when he passed away...so you can do the math there. But.  Unfortunately, the memories that wouldn’t stop flooding my brain was the actual life that he DID live.  I never mourned his death (sorry if that sounds heartless...I’m just being so real!), it was his life that I mourned. The people he hurt. And the generations ...

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